When you are your own best friend, you don’t endlessly seek out relationships, friendships, and validation from the wrong sources because you realize that the only approval and validation you need is your own.

Mandy Hale
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When you are your own best friend, you don't endlessly seek out relationships, friendships, and validation from the wrong sources because you realize that the only approval and validation you need is your own. When we seek validation from others or rely on relationships for our happiness, we often discover that we don't actually have the power to make them happy. A truly best friend knows they don't need anyone else to feel good about themselves. They're not afraid of being alone. They know that the world will still be there when they go back to it and it will still be there even though they're no longer in it.

Source: The Single Woman: Life, Love, And A Dash Of Sass

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